Jaffna today
Culture and dignity is getting damaged in Jaffna nowadays. Sexual activities and political movements are the most uncontrollable issues in Jaffna today. It is not fare blaming the majority people for all the issues happening here. We are also playing a big role in all these corruptions. And more over the senior Tamil citizens leads the youths towards a spoiled life instead of a prosperous life.
I would like to take an event as an example to illustrate some of the issues that I am concerning.
There was a basketball tournament held in the last week in Jaffna. The finals of that tournament held last Saturday (20th of November, 2010) and the rest of the matches had held in the previous dates. There were 4 matches on that final day. And all of them started at 5.00 pm. There were two matches for girls and two for men. Apart from this there was an additional “Show Game” (Don’t know what was the reason of that game all in the middle of that tournament where girls are requested to stay there for the presentation) as well. And girls’ teams were forced to stay till latte night.
Many girls went home after 10.30 and most of their brothers or parents were not there and none of them have their own vehicles to get back home and none of the Jaffna Roads have enough street lights. More over none of the Jaffna roads are covering standard conditions.
So how can these girls get back to their residence? Is this common here nowadays? Or will they travel in groups? Or will they depend on their boyfriends? Or will they seek help from anonymous boys?
Many leading girls schools have participated in that tournament and most of their coaches are unmarried and between the ages of 20 to 25. They were seated with the team players (teen girls) in a single bench throughout the match where everybody’s’ attention was towards the match. And these coachers used to spent more time in practices and there will be more chance to have the team players without even monitored by any of their school teachers.
Let me raise some question?
What parents thinks of these children? Are they really caring their children or are they just wanted their female child to run away with any street boy?
What these schools and teachers are caring? Are they working as brokers? Or do they really care about their students and their sports? How can be a 20 year old basket ball player who represented a team which can’t even give a good fight in the National level schools basket ball tournament? Can you expect a 20 year (Jaffna sports related) boy to have a better maturity and self control in sex and emotions? Won’t it lead the teen girls fell in false attractions? And won’t it be an opportunity to mislead these young children?
And how can you expect students to care on their sports and studies with these provided sexual chances? These conditions are simply producing student pregnant.
(More over the referees were also with the age of 20+. Is it a healthy situation for sports in Jaffna? Isn’t there enough elders to take care of these things?)
I have received an unconfirmed information which says that average of 45 school girls are approaching the hospital for abortion and average of 15 girls from leading Jaffna town schools. And I am pretty sure that none of the politicians are having sex with these school girls and even if they do such things they knew all the tactics to do it safely which will not lead the girls to abortion.
Our senior citizens are the only reason for all these issues. But is there any newspapers or televisions take this issue to anywhere? They just are ready to blame any sort of political parties.
We will give a coach job ameresh. Be happy lol
ReplyDeleteMr.G.A:::: wht z u r problem, y U ppl r always trying to blame present jaffna over the web and blogs, v knw the culture and wht happend in the past and wht z going in the present also, thiz z 2much. I thnk thiz z nt a major issue, dn't try to show off anythng here ok, (I knw u very well dn't miss use ur talents with thiz topics)
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i appreciate the above comment... U guys are finding a way to mock girls. there may be truth bt posting these things in websites and blogs make it more worse. Don't share these things publicly. And its not always girls fault. There is no any tamil girl who want to lose her culture and dignity. Its in hearts. Guys make them believe and bluff about love and make them believe. And of course there are lots of other influences. But i dont appreciate ur point of view. They are becoming more social doesnt mean they are whores ok.. and there is always girls who are different that average tamil girls through out the time, no one didnt rise all of the sudden. It's just you guys make it visible all of the sudden now because of your all these social networks and blogging on web.
ReplyDeleteLet me ask you a question, do you honestly think there were girls who are cultured in your school days??? If its no, then don't blame present girls..
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Hei guys.First of all thanks for your feed backs and this feedback shows me that there are still people who cares Jaffna.Thank you. And i am not writing things bcz i got a blog to write my views. But i agree there are many guys doing this. They write things and they don't think weather that is acceptable or not and they have their own fans or bloggers group and that group typically welcomes whatever is written.And to be honest i don't wanted to get listed in that group.And i am not used to write often.
ReplyDeleteThe second thing Both of you noted that i am blaming Jaffna Tamil Girls...(Please go through the article). I only asked question at the school teachers and the parents. I am totally a different person when the topics comes as culture and etc. I am not caring for the girls who are having sex and having child in their boom before marriage.Bcz those girls has committed that. But i am asking the like the above situation leads the girls towards bad situation where they can be miss used even without their acceptance.
Anyway i myself feel pity for writing on this topic. I felt sad and wanted to share it with somebody and since i am in Jaffna now i couldn't get a partner to share and argue. And i had lot of spare time and that led me to write a blog on this.I don't care writing things instead of working on it. Anyway thank you anonymous ppls
ReplyDeleteG.A >> thanx 4 the response,I appreciate U,, I am saying thiz bcoz there r some blogers they can't accept others view and if they gt any comments tht against 4 their view, the only solution they knw z erase the comment bt u proved Ur self.
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thank you for your appreciation
ReplyDeletelol... culture and dignity never been there...its just the people who hide their othersides..Ok.. I think for more than years, individuals themselves never bothered to keep their culture and dignity..Its just the people and media or whatever there is which saved it..there have been always girls, boys , older, teachers and all the others have been some trashes... so just stop blaming and accept the fact things changed or things become to spot light lately..
ReplyDeleteAgain i would like to tell i am not even bothering of culture.I agree your point.But what i blame is: i wanted girls and boys to commit mistakes(i don't really want to call it as mistakes)by their own.But what i stated in the article is, ppl creates situations which leads these youngsters to commit those so called mistakes. If things happen normally then i will accept it as change..But here things are forced to happen and that the elders are not aware of.Even they don't want it to happen. But their carelessness leads things like this.So it is not blaming. It is just a way to create awareness.
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